Each individual has a unique body and knows best how it operates, but there are several tried-and-true tricks that can help you achieve mind-blowing orgasms.
Thrust: This is quite easy. But yes, rather than only thrusting the dildo in and out, consider changing up tempo and depth for variety.
Hands free: Keep him occupied in other ways, athach the dildo to any flat surface that you want to explore. You can control your own rhythm and how far in the toy goes.
G-Spot Stimulation: Some curved dildos can stimulate the hot spot inside you. Think of it as a heat-seeking pleasure missile. Once it’s in the pleasure zone, rub it with a toy or circular movements while fiddling with the pressure and tempo. Just do whatever seems best.
Tips: You don’t always need the full penetration to get the maximum pleasure. To get in touch with yourself, you might start by just playing with the tip of the torso dildo. Test out slow and fast paces, as well as shallow and full thrusts.
Rotation: One of the awesome features of dildos is how realistic they are, so you can mix up your masturbation routine by using it and rotating it in and out. Consider a dildo with a built-in swivel.
Dildos are great for anal use, as the flared base prevents the toy from being sucked into an anal cavity. You can push, twist, vibe hands-free, or hand control over to a partner, just as you would with traditional vaginal play. Also, women don’t have the market cornered on anal intercourse. Men can play in the backyard, too. Just make sure there’s a lot of lube. The asshole does not produce natural lubricant, so you need this for your pleasure, comfort, and security.
Solo dildo position
Three standard positions for solo play, but play around with what feels good if you’re using a dildo on your own.
MissionaryAs simple as it is, this is the most common way to masturbate with a dildo. Just lie on your back with your legs apart. If you use a anal dildo, put a cushion beneath to make a comfortable angle for entering.
Face Down: Lay on your stomach, or on all fours if that is what you consider to be doggie style. You can get your dildo in to use it by putting it through your legs or behind you. It also depends on how comfortable or flexible or how much you can reach.
Ride or straddle: The best part about dildos is they tend to be equipped with suction cups on the base. It enables you to stick the clip on any clean, flat surface. What does this imply for you? Also don’t take yourself too seriously and loosen the grip on your hands! Forget that – attach it to a toilet seat, to the floor, or to a firm bench and slide it on cowgirl style. Or add to wall/shower wall and lean on. Meanwhile you have your hands free to play with your breasts or massage your clit, adding more tingling sensations and pleasure.
Use a dildo with a lover
Sure, we all need some stress-relieving “me time,” but dildos are some of the best sex toys for partner play. They can help heat up the bedroom, increase intimacy between couples and open up lines of communication by allowing partners to tell each other what feels good to them. And some tips for working a dildo into your foreplay and sex life.
Incorporate dildos into foreplay: Foreplay is the ideal time to add sex toys, such as dildos. To build anticipation, drape a smaller dildo over her tits and have her slide it down her soapy body, then tease her thighs with the dildo, and finally, she inserts while being kissed deeply. Try a variety of thrusting styles, speeds and depths so that when you’re ready to actually have sex with her, she’s genuinely ready and you know what turns her on. The same is true for guys.
Strap on sex and pegging: Most people picture strap-on sex involving two women, and it certainly does much of the time. But many heterosexual couples have found “the hook.” This allows the woman to keep control while penetrating her boyfriend. Prostate play for men can lead to over-the-top, mind blowing male orgasms, so if he’s adventurous and curious, its time to satisfy that fantasy of a role reversal.
Double Penetration: Others are built with two heads to mimic the feeling of being penetrated in both holes. It’s a great option for those who want a kind of “threesome” feeling all by themselves. The most common type of double penetration dildo is the double-ended penis. This reliable device is being relied on by all types of people choosing fun together. If you’re vagina-to-vagina dildoeing, vagina-to-anus dildoeing, or anus-to-anus dildoeing, the scissor position (or butt-butt) will give you the most feeling.